Called to be merciful

The Gospel passage from John 8:1-11 is a classic example of Jesus demonstrating mercy and compassion. It serves as a clear model for us to follow, even though implementing such virtues in our own lives can be challenging. In this reading, the scribes and Pharisees bring before Jesus a woman caught in adultery, intending to test Him. They remind Jesus of the Mosaic law, which sentences stoning as the punishment for her offense. Yet, instead of condemning the woman, Jesus offers words that resonate in those present and us today: "Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her."

In this brief yet powerful statement, Jesus reminds us of the importance of humility and the recognition of our own sins before judging others. Lent, through the readings and symbolic traditions, provides us with an opportunity to examine our own lives, acknowledge our shortcomings, and seek forgiveness. Just as Jesus did not condemn the woman, but instead offered her a chance to repent and change her ways, so too are we called to extend mercy and compassion to others.

This is hard to do in our own lives. Very hard.

As a parent and teacher, I feel called through this Gospel reading to serve as a model of humility, compassion, and forgiveness in the lives of those I father and teach. In order to be successful at this calling, I need to acknowledge my own mistakes and shortcomings, thus creating an environment where it is safe for my kids and students to admit when they are wrong. When trying to do this, I often find myself rationalizing in situations that are ‘small’ relative to the adultery committed by the woman in the reading. For example, although deceiving my parents decades ago may seem insignificant compared to the adultery in the reading, I must recognize the importance of honesty and integrity in all aspects of life, especially with children that are making similar mistakes to my own. Jesus’ words are clear and all-encompassing: “Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” He did not state specific sins or allow some to stay and throw stones because their sins were ‘minor’ relative to others.

Also, rather than immediately resorting to punishment or criticism, I strive to maintain a balance between discipline and compassion, recognizing that mistakes/sins present valuable opportunities for growth and learning. The ultimate goal for my kids and students is for them to feel loved, supported, and empowered to strive towards their fullest potential. By extending forgiveness to them, I can demonstrate the power of grace and develop a culture of accountability and reconciliation. That being said, it is important that consequences exist for mistakes; however, I must also consider their broader implications. If Jesus were to look me in the eyes and say, "From now on, do not sin anymore," like he did to the woman in the passage's conclusion, it would inspire greater personal growth within me than any form of punishment, penance, or time out ever could.

As we continue our Lenten journey, may this passage provide us with the opportunity to reflect on the profound mercy and compassion that Jesus extends to us and strive to mirror His example in our own lives.

Author: Ben Kirby, Administration